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ooh I like this
@Damage tbh, a lot of things in that list are things that have to be fixed to have a successful monogamous relationship, too.
@jfm yeah, it's not just about non-monogamy
@Damage Maybe you're just non-toxicly monogamous!
@Damage As a monogamous person, this seems 100% legit to me.
@benhamill @Damage One of the big red flags on OkCupid is people who pick 'Yes' to "Is jealousy healthy in a relationship."
Yikes.
I'm not saying we're all perfect and jealousy is never gonna happen, but it should be treated as a problem to be resolved and talked through, not what you want to live with your whole life together.
@Damage Seconding!
It's a good translation of what I mean when I say 'theoretically poly'