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About me? I'm 30, a Leo, and work at an office job that's alright, but NOT my forever job.

I am:

And I talk a lot about:

I'm trying to learn more about podcasting, programming, self-care/self-love, and I hope to one day be courageous enough and rich enough to get all the tattoos I could ever want!

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Morning lovely people.

Your well being matters. Even when some people want to ignore it. You have a right to your space and peace of mind.

Prioritizing you're wellness is going to upset some people for a variety of reasons and that's ok. You are not responsible for calming another person's expectations of you.

Just focus on getting what you need to help you move forward. Make taking care of yourself a habit.

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Since the Facebook debacle I have:

Deleted Facebook
Deleted Twitter
Cut back everything Google to just gmail
Dumped the chrome browser
Switched from windows to Linux Mint
Started using Firefox
Started using Proton Mail

Quit being a product, starve big tech where your information is concerned.

If there was one thing I would do differently in my past, it would be asking my first FTM friend more questions about being FTM.
I was so far in the closet with myself that I tried to not even think about the fact that he was trans (it was pretty obvi, but I never even tried to confirm it with him).

That's it. That's the only thing I'd do differently. I'd talk to that dude about being a dude. I'd educate myself.

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Hello fediverse! is a free/open/nonprofit alternative to proprietary review sites like #Goodreads, #Yelp, #IMDB.

It plugs into #opendata sources: #Wikidata, #OpenLibrary and #OpenStreetMap (OSM integration is very basic at this point). Still a long way to go but we have a small community and lots of reviews already. On GitHub at: - IRC: on - Matrix:


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🇬🇧 I'm still searching for radio amateurs on mastodon, by the way.

🇩🇪 Ich suche übrigens noch nach Funkamateuren auf mastodon.

🇸🇪 Jag letar fortfarande efter radio amatörer på mastodon, för övrigt.

🇱🇺 Ik zoek overigens nog naar zendamateurs op mastodon.

Please retoot!

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Love yourself first, and everything else falls in line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world. ~ Lucille Ball

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A person I've been following for a while came out as trans recently, and that has led me to think about trans-ness. And I'm wondering how much of it is innate, and how much it's society's doing, by forcing people to abide by absurd rules depending on their displayed sex. If you don't identify with a lot of the rules society expects you to follow as a man/woman, then what are you?

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Morning, lovely folks.

If you can see this, you are in a remarkably privileged and unique situation.

Appreciate it for what it is and do a little bit everyday to help other people get to where you are.

Every little bit counts.

My Deadpool fanny pack holds most of my (my planner is in the backpack with lunch and laptop)

On days when I question my dad-tastes in using a fanny pack, I ask myself WWDPD... what would Deadpool do?

Deadpool would own it. So here I am, strutting my stuff


Seeing some shitty transphobia on my FB Timeline on Friday night has left me feeling anxious and unsafe...

And throwing myself into building my new Trans-Punk look with a fury, because it lets me unleash some of that anxiety as rage, but in a constructive way.

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It's that time again! Allow your shoulders to drop. Let your jaw loosen.


*throws up hands* I guess they ran out of Rubens, which was my whole reason for going downstairs!
*Goes back upstairs, orders for take out, goes back to work while waiting for food to prep*

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*Decides to go downstairs*
*Remembers to grab earbuds but not money*

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Should I just order something on the online menu, or should I actually make the effort of going downstairs and getting one of the yummy "this-week-only" items... :/

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This online purr generator is Very Very Good.

I need to start building a queer/punk wardrobe...


Welp, partner S ended up having to go the urgent care. Partner L and I both have to be up at 5 am, but we're here at urgent care with him. Upside, it's open at 9 at night. Downside the patient room is tiny and WARM. Been here about 40 minutes so far. I still don't like Kaiser Permanente.

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Prison librarian here. Looking for people who want to donate fantasy, science fiction, historical fiction, comics, graphic novels, suspense/thrillers to the prison libraries I run. We need thousands of books. Please help! Amazon wish list is pinned on my profile. #RetweeetPlease

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Hey! You're important! Don't forget to drink water! DOn't forget to make sure your face is attached... ALL day! Don't forget to lock the gate and never let them find the dark ppoooll take breaks ffffrom the computtter and makee yr lungs go in/out ALLLday be normal

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