I'm very very sad because i wanted to be at ESL and meet my friends. I think adrenalin of the landing and general stress and health concerns influenced my decision to turn back. It's sad because if there wasn't a stop, I'd be fine and in England right now
I feel like I've disappointed people, I've certainly disappointed myself. In hindsight I believe i made a mistake, and it's scary because at the time it so obviously didn't seem like a mistake at all. I don't know what to do with myself right now.
@Gargron Add a quote function inside toots and we will forgive you.You must know that you really dissapointed me tho
@Gargron I've done stuff like that over the years albeit on a smaller scale. The only thing you can do is let yourself feel how you're going to feel and understand that it will pass and learn from it from there. Whoever you may have let down (which you likely didn't anyways I would imagine they will understand your choice and why you made it at the time) won't want you beating yourself up about it
@gargron have you considered leasing time on a telepresence robot?
I shouldn't travel alone and maybe putting a person who has barely ever traveled in a situation with lots of adrenalin like flying and expecting that person to realize they're influenced by that is not a good idea
do you
do you not like traveling??
but you're going somewhere else!
@Gargron May I ask why you decided to fly anyway? Was it a better deal than the good ol' Deutsche Bahn?
@Julia my destination was England, but i had a layover within Germany
@Gargron Ja gut, bis dahin fährt die Bahn dann tatsächlich nicht und mit Bus dauert das ja gefühlt eine Woche.
Tut mir leid, dass es nicht geklappt hat.
@Julia Hätte ich stattdessen über Amsterdam geflogen dann hätte ich keine Chance zurückzukehren. Echt schade. Damit habe ich bei der Planung nicht gerechnet.
You should read statistics on aviation safety, and then compare them with every other mean of transportation. Flying is safer than anything else. ✈️
@ciaby So do I and it 100% does not help me at all. But I'm glad it works for you!
@ciaby There's physical stress on the body from flying, in my case maybe worse than for others
@Gargron hey, please, don't be hard on yourself, what happened to you is totally understandable. Travelling is really stressful. It gets much better with time but starting is hard and doing it alone is hard. I hope you find someone to travel with you and maybe it will help you
@Gargron traveling alone is scary. i get it.
@Gargron oh geez was this your first time flying? That’s always prettt scary.
@gargron its ok at the time of making the decision it was the right one. Just because you feel differently about it does not mean it was the wrong decision. Have a cup of tea and put on some terrible movies and relax 😊
@NeuroWinter this is legit the most helpful thing I heard so far. Thank you
Learn from your mistake and do not repeat it, is there something else to do with mistakes (except repair them when you can)?
@Gargron Oh, but remember, it is all up to you. You are not forced to do anything left or right.