@Nonunsenses Thanks!

Also it's been mostly from the French. So hey French people - SEE TO YOUR SHIT.

@GinnyMcQueen I hope you report them -- I can't because I'm on another instance.

@GinnyMcQueen You still look good tho

I just blocked 3 people who told me to suck it up and block people.

Way to not understand the underlying issues of harassment of women on the internet, you fucks.

I get DAILY rape and death threats. Blocking doesn't stop that unless there are other strategies involved and the community is decidedly anti-harassment.

Stop puting the burden on victims.

@GinnyMcQueen well that's terrible.

@Duncan I'm a magnet for it.

@GinnyMcQueen that must feel terrible.

@GinnyMcQueen Seriously could not agree more. Victim blaming = rape culture plain and simple.

@GinnyMcQueen you are entirely on point here. There needs to be protection against harassment by default.

How that works I don't know but I will support anyone who want to figure it out.

@GinnyMcQueen

That sucks. I'm sorry that happens to you.
I'm looking forward to seeing how mastodon handles things. I'm hoping admins will be proactive about blocking the assholes and blocking the instances where they congregate. There will need to be tools to make that easier and faster. Or else it will just wither and die.

@GinnyMcQueen That sounds like a nightmare. Thank you for sharing your experiences so those of us who are less frequently subjected to harassment understand what's at stake when we fight.

@BenCalcaire Here's what I've been dealing with lately: https://ginnymcqueen.tumblr.com/post/158337865524/ginnymcqueen-since-january-31st-i-have-now

@GinnyMcQueen you're already having trouble with jerks here? ugh.

@Duncan You missed some fun Nazi apologists yesterday.

Just blocked another one.

If you think telling a woman who has spent years being harassed and stalked that abuse is "inevitable" is a helpful thing - go fuck yourself. :kissing_heart:

https://mastodon.social/media/AFm0GzKBrpy3a624XKQ

@GinnyMcQueen Man, fuck this dude and fuck this idea that just because it's the internet people are allowed to be shitty with no repercussions. And extra fuck this dude specifically for tying hitting on you into his "but it's the internet" bullshit.

@GinnyMcQueen Gosh those people... *sigh*

Creating new accounts to continue messaging me against my consent. https://mastodon.social/media/FXVjmF1Q2EO8vkErW2w

@GinnyMcQueen Boy, you just made a really good case against an instance-based social service; if dupe accounts on other instances can just keep on hassling people, harassment will be worse here ultimately than it was on bird site.

@GinnyMcQueen @whatthegeek There are plenty of outside the box ways of dealing with harassment without resorting to strict centralization. No one ever implements them though.

@whatthegeek and this is different from people making several different eggs on the bird site in what way?

@mask @whatthegeek It's not *better*, but it sure as hell isn't *worse*, considering the birdsite didn't care and let them stay as much as possible, whereas here admins can be much more invested in keeping their instances clean!

@mask It's decentralized. Had birdsite ever chosen to, they could have blocked based on things like the user's IP. With a decentralized, instance-based system automated blocking like that is off the table. Mastodon requires human admin intervention by virtue of its structure.

@whatthegeek @mask But you said it "will be worse here ultimately than" on Twitter.

That's plainly not true! Because despite these theoreticals you mentioned, Twitter doesn't do shit.

"I could help but i don't want to because my brand suffers less from letting you suffer than it would from helping you" isn't less bad, by any measure, than "We'll do what we can, but due to the structure we can't just *fix* it". :/

@mask @whatthegeek And decentralization, for the same reasons it can be a problem with harassment, can be extremely helpful on other matters (like mass surveillance), so it's not like that feature is a bad thing per se, either... unlike Twitter's attitude to harassment. ^^°

@whatthegeek that's true, but mastodon's human admins are actually beholden to its userbase to stay active in way that birdsite never was.

@GinnyMcQueen wow what an asshole

@GinnyMcQueen Makes me think that a smarter blocking feature wouldn't let trolls know they've been blocked. I think Reddit did this—troublesome users were quietly silenced, and they'd continue to rave away in a vacuum without realizing that no one else was seeing their shit.

One of the best anti-troll measures I've seen is invite-only signup. Imzy did this. Might not stop a determined troll, but a lot of these people are lazy shits who won't bother with new accounts if it takes effort.

@GinnyMcQueen And: Sorry you have to be dealing with this at all. I'd happily see this jackass scoured from the internet if that was possible.

I'd have thought that if you have to create multiple accounts because someone keeps blocking you, you might get the sense you're the one doing the harassing. Given that most trolls are narcissistic sociopaths, though, that logic has probably escaped him.

We have the inalienable right to control who we talk to. No one is entitled to conversation.

@GinnyMcQueen I'm sorry. This gives me the same feeling as when I see spiders (not a joke, really skin crawling creepy)

@GinnyMcQueen Please block and report. Are you getting these threats from mastodon.social?

@ginnymcqueen So every woman. Your talking about literally every woman. I have not met one that did not have to deal with harassment of some kind.

I do not understand how other men do not understand that, and why it's wrong.

@GinnyMcQueen Please, do not generalize.

@GinnyMcQueen Reported the one you @-ed back, but i can't see the others? Sorry. :/

@GinnyMcQueen Hi Ginny, sorry you're being treated like that :anguished: Will try my best to report the French assholes harrassing you.

@GinnyMcQueen there is bad people everywhere, you just have to block them, and you'll never see them ever again :)

@GinnyMcQueen find a new instance

@GinnyMcQueen So. 1 guy is a ass = "y'all". Second, we're still on the internet, there's dumbasses EVERYWHERE.

@GinnyMcQueen we're not all like that, please don't give up

@numimyon Unsolicited "not all men" toots are clearly not what's missing in this person's life, maybe don't do this next time.

@abgd I explicitly didn't talk about men ... if you check my profile you can see that I don't even identify as man. but it's great to see that you support Ginny, was just trying to do the same in my own (much more clumsy) way

@numimyon Argh sorry, can't believe I did this twice ;_;

@abgd nevermind :)

@GinnyMcQueen It's depressing to see you deal with this. This kind of behavior from is precisely the kind of thing this network was made to overcome. #solidarity