Question:
If so many men argue that the assholes are the minority, (NOT ALL MEN!!!) why do we never see giant groups of men flooding women's accounts with nice, respectful messages or support?
Why doesn't dogpiling get responded to by a flood of help? Where is the support for women being stalked and threatened? Where are y'all?
I have never in my life been overwhelmed by kindness. But men literally attempt (and often succeed) destroying my life on the daily.
Where are the "good guys"?
That's what I thought.
Support is not a compliment.
SUPPORT IS MONEY.
SUPPORT IS DISRUPTING ABUSERS.
SUPPORT IS ACTIVISM
SUPPORT OTHER HUMANS WHO ARE IN DISTRESS, YOU DAFT SODS.
@GinnyMcQueen Support our eyes : stop using capitals please. Thanks.
Good guys don't help people, they have their own shit to do.
@GinnyMcQueen hahaha what the FUCK. It takes 2 seconds to tell a dude "hey, don't do that'
@pat @GinnyMcQueen
NO kidding. Guys, we need to do a lot better at policing ourselves online. Harassers and abusers should be shown the fucking door, not apologized for. Stop making excuses.
@GinnyMcQueen eat your shit, @mastodon.social
@GinnyMcQueen I find it interesting that it was aimed directly at you, instead of actually spending those words dealing with bigotry. :thinking:
Help I am drowning in good guys over here. https://mastodon.social/media/skXkBFUDNiKUhgP2Mc4
@GinnyMcQueen all this is appalling (your testimony, the threats, the replyβ¦), and I sure feel sorry for you (for what it's worth).
Sadly, these days seem to be the return of the Dark Agesβ¦ I see lots of hate speech targeting women, LGBTQ, ethnicities,Β β¦
And a few years ago, it was "only" done by "people hidden behind their computer", now they do it IRL.
This is an everyday fight as a lot of education is needed.
I try and do my part (or so I hope)
Keep the faith!
I can't handle any more good guys please stop I'm so sorry you are the victim of women not devoting all of their time to you seriously what the hell are you even saying please don't @ me ever this goes for most all of you please stop I can't stop typing help you have broken me https://mastodon.social/media/OvmYbytf24vod1DOVeE
@GinnyMcQueen there needs to be a very specific eyeroll gif for this nonsense.
Men hate it when they do something publicly and then people in public see them do it and judge them for it. π’
@GinnyMcQueen Hey, stay strong! Don't let a bunch of haters spoil your day! Lets all keep tooting hereπππ
@GinnyMcQueen fuck that shit, I'm a "good guy" and I'm here for you, and all other women, who aren't treated like the amazing, wonderful, fantastic people they are :heart: "good guys" who are too busy to help online are just #NotAllMen apologists who can't be bothered getting involved in changing the world but SURE DO have enough time to TELL YOU how busy they are :weary:
@GinnyMcQueen The first sin: treating people like objects, but objects like people.
@GinnyMcQueen lol, I could ask you the same thing, where are the "good girls" ? :wink:
Some people/country are more invested into women's rights than others, I guess that count too
@GinnyMcQueen from a friend on twitter:
"men: why don't you date us, we're not all bad
men: *are all bad*
men: i mean apart from that"
Oh, sweethearts. You think "support" means compliments.
Oh no.
Oh men why.
I can't explain this to you if you don't treat women like HUMANS.