Replace the word "men" here with simply "people" though I understand that those conditioned as male do tend to twords avoidant attachment styles, but this is an excellent article. After many heartbreaks I've come understood this within my own experience, but it's very comforting to have it layed out in this way.
For Men Who Desperately Need Autonomy | Dating Tips for the Feminist Man https://norasamaran.com/2016/07/21/for-men-who-desperately-need-autonomy-make-it-dont-take-it/
"do not think, either, that when I doubt, I am not also sensing right beside me, close enough to touch them, definite, indisputable things. Just as human sight is capable of taking in only one side of an apple, human speach cannot encompass any phenomenon in its total roundness."
-Czeslaw Milosz in a letter to Jerzy Andrezejewski
I need a room in #berlin for September-October 450€ max. Leads?
I Speak Music: Manipulating, Improvising & Composing with Vocals | Loop https://youtu.be/HrPvF8Nq-10
I don't usually have super physically painful periods. My cramps hurt, but at their worst they are just distracting and annoying, but this cycle is more painful than it has been since I was a tiny kid. I started bleeding super young and I was so sick my first few periods, as I got older it chilled out. Today I've hardly been able to get out of bed because of the pain. Shout out to all the uterus havers that regularly have to deal with debilitating pain with menstruation. 🙇🏻♂️
“Splittings” by Adrienne Rich – live in the layers https://nataliejabbar.wordpress.com/tag/splittings-by-adrienne-rich/
If you suffer with suicidal ideation you can't stay alive for yourself - you do it for others.
If you have ADHD then positive social interactions are rewards for tasks and hobbies, you may not be able to maintain motivation just for yourself.
If you have trauma from childhood then you're going to need external reassurance whilst you learn to trust others.
It's okay for other people to be the main motivator in your life. We're social animals.
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