facebook messenger is the worst narc I know. what jackoff built a site with read receipts AND “last active 3 minutes ago” AND demands you use your real name so any extended relative or forgotten acquaintance feels like they own your time and immediate presence forever
@Icebrand I actually like the read receipts. D:
Fuck the real name thing though.
@thewaether i wish that would help in my case, but i think it would just shift the "why are you ignoring me"s to "why are you ignoring my request to let me see if you're ignoring me" for certain boundary-issue-havers in my social vicinity :(
it's a good idea though and i really wish more things were opt-in and symmetrical in general