Random thoughts as I can't sleep.
Identity is such a weird thing. It is the thing that hurts most to have changed or limited but identity means different things to different people. For most people gender is a critical part of your identity but for me it Isn't, yet my degree subject I studied half a lifetime ago defines how I see myself and hurts if I feel like I lost my connection to the subject.
As you were
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