@webmind Oh I know almost nothing about tech! So this probably won't answer your question at all, but here goes:
1. tech can be awesome for bringing folks together, and I've got many RL friends I first met online
2. but it is run by too many white cis dudes
3. and it needs a stronger code of ethics & greater humanity overall
4. also more good outlets for sex-positive porn that pays performers well & treats them fairly
5. just because we CAN do something via tech doesn't mean we SHOULD

@MmeLibertine thank you, I was hoping you wouldn't know a lot, so perfect. :)