Welp, just saw my first dude harassing a WoC here... he's on an instance that has no CoC. I was about to click report, then realized I don't know what that does. Alert the admins at my instance? his instance? Both?
I don't want to necessarily alert remote admins, b/c for all I know that's him or his buds and will just incite more harassment… OTOH if it's local-only, then bad actors can escape banning by only harassing people on other instances ☹ #help