Your description of RMS is quite off by my view (and I've heard him speak multiple times, had several conversations personally and read all his work).
RMS doesn't have the absurd idea that software-freedom should be *exclusive* to programmers or that all people *must* be programmers, but he absolutely wants everyone to have the capacity to use those freedoms if they wish or to find friends or hire programmers etc.
RMS wants freedom for engineers and not all? No, that's plain wrong.
I'm not attacking him, and I'm happy if he agree with me on this!
But those words were from an interview he gave (and I saw similar arguments before, and I used to agree until I realised the implications): https://newleftreview.org/II/113/richard-stallman-talking-to-the-mailman
(Search for "talent" in that page)
"Everyone should be able to write software" — not absurd
"Free Software only applies to those able to write software" — wrong
What's absurd is any suggestion that most people be more than novice programmers. A basic functional literacy might make sense. Just like everyone should know how to draw or to sing or to do basic scientific-style critical thinking… but we're still going to have most important programming (and most drawing and most science etc) done by a portion of people.
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