@phooky That's the trick, isn't it, that breaks the whole thing about being "involuntarily" celibate if you take 5 seconds to think about it. (Realizing that doesn't do anything about the underlying entitlement issues, though.)
As I said in another thread, one thing that might've helped break me out of the mindset of being involuntarily celibate was... someone with similar entitlement issues going after me - turns out that male entitlement isn't the exclusive domain of straight men.