@quark dice / pencil / paper. but more importantly, have fun, and do not hold back! DMs love to react to players doing the unexpectedd.
Be open to your party; if your group role plays, don't be afraid to jump in and be silly / dramatic / earnest. don't be afraid to ask questions and all for clarity. If they're combat-focused, swing for the fences! #dnd statistically favours the player so you're more likely to hit than miss, and either way bigger hits and misses are more fun.
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