@athairbirb thanks! I'm not sure I do either but as the posts unfold maybe something will spring to mind. As long as we're learning we're doing something right. Thanks for the interest!
Also take a look at https://fediverse.party .. it shows the lay of the land.
On the repository where it is developed you'll find a big watchlist of #fediverse seeds sprouting:
Server run by the main developers of the project It is not focused on any particular niche interest - everyone is welcome as long as you follow our code of conduct!