Every birthday brings up a callous friend. Last year was one attacking me for not throwing a party (mum had surgery 2 days before, I wasn't in mood) saying I moaned all the time so no one else got to be sad.
There's always some jerk punishing you because they didn't like being born. A birthday is a good time to note who that is and weed them out of your life.
Also though, such a reminder of how many others actually show up with love & affection and only gratitude for your existence. It's been a good day so far.
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