Iris Jay is a user on You can follow them or interact with them if you have an account anywhere in the fediverse.

I may or may not be terribly available tomorrow since it'll be @ComputerHusband's and my ninth wedding anniversary (he got the day off). We're as confused as you are.

I mention this mostly because we actually haven't brought it up that much and it's a little fun realizing we've made it this far for this long already.