I know Twitter's a shithole but remember that it's not JUST the admins' fault.
Fleeing from the constant negativity, vicious flame-wars and harassment? Those things are just as likely to happen here, if we're not careful.
Mastodon is not popular yet, but it's growing. One day it will be. Security by obscurity is not security at all, as I'm sure you're aware.
We need to be on our best behaviour, promoting the values we want to see on our networks.
It's not someone else's problem.
@karyl Agreed but some built-in features make harassment and ugliness harder to do on mastodon. there's a TOS that seems to be actually enforced, you can limit the audience of your toots, words aren't searchable but hashtags are, you can block entire instances in addition to people, etc. It's not always going to be a paradise but I think it will always be better.
@karyl @afabulous I do use my real name here & a few other sites. I can't speak for everyone but there are times when it's helped me put the brakes on. Unfortunately, that's sometimes meant blocking/muting someone who was majorly pushing my buttons... so I didn't go off on them & their b.s. like I desperately wanted to. 🙃
@afabulous @karyl A big difference is many Mastodon instances are hosted in countries where glorifying any type of political extremism (Nazi content, extreme Islam etc) is fully illegal, as are various forms of harrassment.
Instance admins are often young folk paying for hosting with their own money via methods that can identify them to their domestic authorities. in some countries they must by law publish valid contact info. So there is no incentive for admins to create trouble for themselves.
@karyl i was thinking about this just earlier today when a friend jokingly brought up mass migration to here from tumblr
as much as i really love mastadon at the moment, popularity always seems to bring with it a crowd that gets set off into mobbing and witchhunts all to easily
@karyl @shiirojasmine very much so. we've already seen it happen with personalities that built a presence on those other networks. it'd serve us well to identify how these things happened and get in front of the problem... mobbing, harassment, corporate presence, etc. all started somewhere and it'd be cool if some non-shitty Social Media expert could identify what the appropriate ounce of prevention might have looked like that would've prevented those dynamics in those spaces.
@lifning @karyl i think as long as anon isn't an option that you can have on here, a lot fewer ppl will be willing to go around hurting others. no one wants to be remembered as part of the crowd that drove somebody off social media or to suicide after all.
plus a liberal amount of blocking never hurts
@karyl @shiirojasmine sadly, some of the offenders that come to mind are very not-anonymous instance admins that have done some awful things (e.g. doubling down on suicide-baiting, spreading disinformation about other people), even acting counter to their own codes of conduct... but having perfectly lovely people on the instances they run, who it wouldn't be fair to punish. humans are cliquey by nature and this stuff happens, anonymously or not... dunno how to mitigate it though
i'm not sure if there's any sort of easy solution to this problem, but i think mastodon has provided some pretty nice tools that i haven't come across on some other sites
i haven't used it yet but i like the cw option, and i like that you can block users or whole instances. anything can be improved upon, but i feel like this is already a great start
@karyl I see where you're coming from. But sometimes I've seen people tag *any* disagreement as "harassment," no matter how carefully worded it is... just because they're outnumbered (or imagine they are) and they don't like it.
I wish I was clearer as to what you meant by *negativity*. Can you give an example? My image may not match yours at all.
@amylsacks @karyl I've had a private account as my main experience on Twitter for the better part of a year now because I had to delete multiple accounts due to harassment, and not just "disagreements" but... actually having threats of violence and having my tweets mirrored to Kiwifarms. The site is too big and site staff just really don't give a fuck.
Near the end, I'd locked up, too. But it was more about personal anxiety-type issues.
Let's just say what finally pushed me over the edge was seeing the spawn of a certain pol trolling the place nonstop just like his Papa, and knowing the owners would let him forever because all they really care about is hits and ad revenue.
@amylsacks Of course negativity can mean a lot of things, but what I had in mind when writing the post was the propensity of left Twitter to endlessly jaw about how shitty US (and to a smaller degree, UK and Aus) politics are on any given day. No solutions or organization, just "look at the car crash today! Ooh blood!"
luckily that's something Masto handles REALLY well, what with the CWs. But we still have to make sure we use them :)
@karyl thank you for stating this. I feel like this probably needs to be a regular reminder that goes up every so often. I'm new here and LOVE it, but the reality that Mastodon might turn the way of other networks is a very real possibility, and that thought is highly disconcerting.
Love and peace guys.