moving to @limni@pawbs.club <3
music, synthwave goodness
thank you shuffle gods for bringing this song to my attention — lime lagoon by phaserland: https://rossocorsarecords.bandcamp.com/track/lime-lagoon
self doubt, remote work
i love my personal life and my mate and friends,and my primary concern is doing right by that. i'm finally not a complete trainwreck as a person. i need to focus on that.
self doubt, remote work
but i've built a life, and i have bills to pay, and i don't have the savings or latitude or social capital or privilege to "reinvent myself", not that that would make my professional situation any better
self doubt, remote work
once i get on the phone with folks, it's almost like i have the opposite problem — it's hard for me not to empathize, and if folks are angry i just kind of wither. i don't know if support/admin is the right path for me, but i don't know if i'm smart or disciplined enough for development work
self doubt, remote work
telecommuting has had its benefits, but I think that only interacting with my users remotely has dampened my empathy somewhat. i know that some amount of distance is necessary to stay sane, especially with hostile customers, but i need to get better about understanding where people are coming from on the other side of an email
leoflexible anthropomorphic from another dimension! queer, genderqueer, poly. tinkerer, noisemaker, dork. mated to @captainbozo