I’ve gotten asked a bunch what our back story is and how we got started in the lifestyle, so I figured I’d finally make an introduction thread so here goes. My husband and I met in college, and we are both the adventurous type, so we started experimenting with different kinks.
After we had been dating for about a year and a half, he asked me if I’d be interested in experimenting with women. I’m always down to try new things so I agreed. I played with women a couple of times. Nothing too crazy just making out and using some vibrators.
He asked me how I liked it and I said it was fun but that I realized I really like dick way more than girls. That’s when he told me if I wanted to start hooking up with other guys, he’d be fine with it.
At first, I thought he was trying to use this as an excuse to break up with me, but he assured me it wasn’t. He just wanted me to enjoy myself. I hooked up with one of his friends a couple of times and then I started branching out and meeting new guys.
I really enjoyed my experiences with black men and just the different energy they brought. We’re mostly a stag/vixen couple but we have some cuck elements to our play. It all depends on our mood.
@lynnlasabre Sounds very nice and cozy. So good to hear such stories … Wish you both all the best. 