job search stuff ugh
Something I hope to be able to do in the future:
When I am unable to help someone to say "I can't help you", or "I don't have time", or "I don't like you" or WHATEVER
I get that people want to feel like they're good people and they want to help but it does not help me when you say "Oh, let me see what I can do" and then ghost. And I say this as someone who has a probably-pathological need to feel helpful
The straight-up "no"s are honestly the most helpful these days
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