It is very important to always call people by their given pronouns... except for cis men, who can be referred to as "she/her" at any time 🤣
This poor guy on r/AITA asking about his gay friends calling him "girl" and oh honey I too briefly experienced discomfort with this but it is a.) all in good fun and b.) not a meaningful axis of oppression for us!
"Ma'am" is gender neutral energy which any person can embody and I will DIE on this hill
@aphyr I feel like "Sir" also falls under this, but only used in the context of "Sir, this is a Wendy's"
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