i think a big divide in the way that people are expected to behave (which we see a lot on the internet) may basically come down to how you define "respect"
a lot of people think "i respect this person" means "i try to treat this person how i would want to be treated"
whereas a lot of other people think "i respect this person" means "i try to treat this person how they want to be treated"
i personally prefer the latter. but you see lots of people who don't!
