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This starts with children. When I became a parent I realized I was automatically assuming that when my child was objecting to something or crying/whining it was because she was trying to get away with something or manipulate me - and I realized how effed up that is.

Children do not appear in the world and somehow start scheming.

Interesting thought; most Americans gaslight themselves because of how pervasive gaslighting is in our society.

In my decades of consulting, people more often don’t or can’t change how they work not because there is any rule or leadership mandate but because they believe it is not acceptable to do something differently.

This is a beautiful piece if reflection from @mariapopova with advice about what to do when your parents are dying.

I lost my father in my mid-20s. He was my North Star and coming to terms with being adrift was earth-shattering and then, ultimately, redemptive. It flattened me and then set me free.

In some ways it it was a gift that it happened when I was old enough to understand and reflect on its impact but young enough to benefit from that growth.

themarginalian.org/2021/11/11/

The Marginalian · When Your Parents Are Dying: Some of the Simplest, Most Difficult and Redemptive Life-Advice You’ll Ever Receive“Death makes human beings seem like very small containers that are packed so densely we can only be aware of a fraction of what’s inside us from moment to moment.”

Mastodon has a lot of creative, unique apps. You can definitely find a fit just for you.

But I think the is having it's own golden era right now with a plethora of choices for us finicky users. The best list I could find for is attached, but it's still missing a few newcomers, like @bean

Nothing near as comprehensive for yet (the API is still getting it's legs) but there is the amazing @ArtemisApp@kbin.social

github.com/dbeley/awesome-lemmy from @dbeley@mamot.ft

What if we decided that owning wasn’t a thing?

In native mindsets the things we use are borrowed and transient; things flow throw us and move on to other beings, of which plants & earth are a part.

How do we untangle our realitity that is divvied up into crumbs that are locked away into personal caches?

I can’t imagine living without ownership and I think that is a huge problem; capitalism has broken human spirit in a fundamental way.

bbc.com/news/business-66132669

BBC NewsThe firms giving nature a stake in their businessesSome companies are giving shares to environmental groups, or putting such advocates on their board.

40% of the safest towns in the United States are in the Northeast. 26% are in Massachusetts, including mine.

I am going to guess why: gun controls, community policing, economic strength, education, and access to good medical care (including mental health) - all of which add up to a culture where we are not all pointing fingers at or scared of each other.

neighborhoodscout.com/blog/top

It would be so nice if Microsoft could sort out there awful, horrible, no good authentication system. It has been broken for 20+ years and it has made my life difficult throughout.

This is a story about boundaries, narrative, trust, collective power & agency, the act of witnessing, change, and compassion.

It is a gift, connecting the treads of history and how they show up in simple acts of daily life. Do you smile or do you frown at someone?

It’s my introduction to Victoria Amelina, a Ukrainian writer who was recently killed in by the Russian war against Ukraine.

H/t @anneapplebaum

theguardian.com/world/2023/jul

The GuardianVictoria Amelina: Ukraine and the meaning of homeBy Victoria Amelina