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@jaan_paul @noelle I agree with Jaan. I've found unexpected help without explicitly asking for it and given advice the same way. Rather than transfer expectations onto others and require them to read your mind, or go through a process of asking if you're asking for help, how about signaling your intention to vent in the first place with a "venting" CW?
@tomasino @jaan_paul @noelle you could just ask them and remove any ambiguity
