i'm sad bc i had a bad experience with a community/at an event, and i was the target of a lot of microaggressions on the subject of my enby identity, and...
even tho the organizing team of the community/event invites all feedback, there is absolutely no way i'm gonna give that feedback to anyone that matters. it was painful and i'm in pain and i don't want to be in more pain by talking about it with the people who organized the event who tried really hard and didn't want this to happen
@scumbling :( I'm so sorry that happened
@nursemchurt i am really thankful for this sympathy, thank you!
I'm sorry people acted that way. That's pretty awful.
And it's not your job to fix it as an attendee - their job was to make you welcome. Them asking for feedback does not leave you with an obligation to give it - it was their job to make giving feedback feel worthwhile.
*virtual hugs if desired*
@packbat ahhh goshers thank you! actually i read this last night and it really resonated with me and helped me feel what i needed to feel and process... thank you so much
VIRTUAL HUGS WANTED AND RECIPROCATED!
@scumbling is it possible there is any ally who could deliver the feedback instead?
Server run by the main developers of the project It is not focused on any particular niche interest - everyone is welcome as long as you follow our code of conduct!