We of course need to change our social norms and it's important to cleave out spaces for people to get a breath free from oppressive norms/institutions and advance prefigurative politics, and this means advancing and enforcing new norms internally. But the preening reactionaries are correct that a lot of folks are getting overconfident about what new norms can be enforced (and where) just because they're ethically correct.
ππβ Surveying, mapping, realms yet to come.