@jessmahler That's common in autistic kids -- google the "Sally-Anne test". Sadly the interpretation of it has always been that we lack "theory of mind", which is crap.
Not sure how to deal with this, as I have no kids myself, but @miss_s_b is an autistic parent of an autistic kid -- Jennie, any ideas?
@stealthmunchkin
I think kistaro windrider has had good ideas here
@jessmahler