the one thing I wish I could convince tech folks, particularly in infosec, is that people won't like you less if you're nice to them

some people just aren't told they're assholes enough

@wilkie only love and friendliness will actively change anyone's mind

@wilkie they don't like you more if you are nice to them either.

nice isn't about being liked it's about reducing the causes of suffering.


God bless you. You spoke my heart. Some are already nice but perhaps most are unnecessarily rude -- so ugly. I've stopped seeking any help from them. I duckduckgo the net (duck-the-net😋) or contact forums, and now try to fin friends.


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