Random masto confessional:
I let a lot of stuff sort of fall by the wayside, and I feel bad about it, but I also know I have a limited supply of energy and wherewithal, more and less at different times, and I just kinda prioritize it as:
1. Keep my daily life shit and my marriage in baseline healthy state.
2. Keep MetaFilter operational.
3. Literally everything else.
And if the shit sliding falls wholly under 3, I call it a qualified victory. Sometimes I do better, but at least: priorities.