Pinned toot

A survey!
When having sexual contact with a partner:

Anyone know a good daily checklist kind of application for Windows? I say this because #ADHD makes it hard for me to stay on schedules, so I want flexibility with that, but I also want a way to make sure I do certain things each day.

cont:

Show thread

I baked gingerbreadmuffins today. And yes, I wore the Santahat and played Christmas-music πŸŽ„πŸŽ…πŸ».

A survey!
When having sexual contact with a partner:

That was a few lines from the fictional Lady Di & Prince Charles have a conversation about their marriage. It rang true to any couple I think, who's having issues in their marriage.

Show thread

"So, what do you want from me?"

"To be heard.
And I'm listening.
No, more than that.
To be understood, appreciated.
I don't need endless flattery.
No one wants that.
But I am trying my hardest to please you, to live up to your standards."

"And if I've been cold or distant
perhaps it's because I don't feel
truly understood by you."

"We both need the same thing..
To be encouraged.
To be supported.
And to be…
appreciated."

cont:

Show thread

A survey!
When having sexual contact with a partner:

Four weeks until Christmasday. I come prepared this year πŸŽ…πŸ»β˜ƒοΈπŸŽ„

I think I found the solution that is cheapest for now. I’ll fetch my work-laptop and configure my old external harddrive on 2 Tb, and buy an extra external instead. Any tips on a good external HDD that works with USB 2.0?

mh - 

Can’t sleep. Still reeling from the panic-attack last night. It comes and goes. I suddenly get hot-flashes, like I can’t stand the heat. And then next, I’m so cold, I’m shivering. I shoved down the attack pretty hard. And I’m tired. So tired. I still feel like a brick hit me. I have zero energy. Is It supposed to be this way...? πŸ€”

Confused. Why does mute user mean unfollow? I thought you just muted them, but kept following? #askmasto

I have to work on my boundaries. Having been gaslighted, abused and bullied in some of my relationships, my boundaries are kind of blurry. And I fall in love easily, because of my past. And sometimes, I think my butterflies in the stomach have been maggots, but I’ve realised it too late. And I’m the kind of person that have an optimistic view on life, so I think any problem can be solved. But every problem can’t be solved, and I have to be okay with that.

Show thread
Show older
Mastodon

Server run by the main developers of the project 🐘 It is not focused on any particular niche interest - everyone is welcome as long as you follow our code of conduct!