Kevin 🏳️‍🌈 @afabulous@mastodon.social

hey #metafilter I posted a question about my #jobsearch - please hope if you can https://ask.metafilter.com/316822/Job-search-panic

unless I missed it, no one posted about #TDOR on #metafilter and it's probably better that way

Is it ethical to dox someone in the name of suicide prevention, when doxxing may cause significant harm if the person does not succeed (at suicide)? Is saving a person's physical body worth the potential of worsening their mental illness? Is it right to deny someone a choice in how they live or die? I have a lot of trouble with this.

*white male baby born*

- 5 minutes later -

"We regret to inform you the baby is racist."

Today is the last day of #TransAwarenessWeek. Tomorrow we dematerialize into our natural ethereal state again.

I keep having dreams about being back with my ex. He was abusive and I left him nearly four years ago. I haven't seen him since the divorce proceedings. I wish I could afford therapy right now. :(

it's so nice to be on a social media platform that isn't full of Brands and Entrepreneurs (yet). Relaxing, even.

Between multiple job rejections and shoulder pain I've gotten very far behind on dishes, laundry and groceries. My one goal today is to catch up on dishes. I think this is achievable. (I'll have to wash underwear in the sink.)

shit is getting much worse over there. There are coordinated attacks on POC by Nazis and trolls, and Twitter is suspending the POC accounts.

Do you have cats? Do you know about Videos for Cats on YouTube? Here you go. They're nice to have on in the background as you read/work, plus they keep your cats out of your way. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XDrB5c4-c9Y

tonight's agenda
- eat chocolate brownies
- watch football?
- think about building a wardrobe for the cat https://mastodon.social/media/08HvN8bD2gUh1L9jFLc

This is a good article & I think it's more common than we talk about. Similar but not the same: for periods of time I've wanted to be dead, but I didn't actually want to be the one to do it. https://www.theodysseyonline.com/suicidal-doesnt-want-to-die?utm_source=Facebook&utm_medium=Owned+Social&utm_campaign=Aud+Dev

to be fair, it is #TransAwarenessWeek and I made him aware so I get a cookie now

being trans means coming out all the time. Had to explain my top surgery scars to my physical therapist today. He thought I was cis so when I said I had a bilateral mastectomy he was like https://mastodon.social/media/Bcx-IaEhiX4coK7dD7M

(note: I do literally have $99 but I balk when I think of how many groceries that would buy.)

Amazon Prime is a good example of how the poor have to spend more. I don't have $99 up front to buy a membership so if I want to buy a $10 item I have to pay shipping, or spend even more.

wow, I'm disappointed that one of my favorite #metafilter comments was stolen without credit https://ask.metafilter.com/315814/Shit-in-ice-cream