I use the men's room, not to make sure I don't make TERFs uncomfortable but to make sure I do make men uncomfortable.
For the purpose of this joke, imagine that I don't look like a man.
@thomasjwebb Ok, you are now a sort of wolf made out of grey Lego.
@thomasjwebb I didn't see the first part of the post, this isn't some kind of bigot response.
@limneticvillains haha that's the one annoyance with timeline mode is I'm seeing threads in reverse order. But it weirdly works. I think I'd make people very uncomfortable if I looked like a wolf made out of grey legos.
@thomasjwebb Terfs are all obsessive weirdos concerned with other people's genitals, they need hobbies, and they need to do those hobbies.
@thomasjwebb I still don't know which one I should use really. Since I consider myself non-gender. I present partly fem partly masc.
I feel uncomfortable using the men's bathroom some of the time. Using the women's bathroom is even worse.
@pinskia I relate to that. I'm gender fluid and I feel a little weird about making certain things variable. Voice is one of those things and which bathroom I use is another. So I feel like I'd weird people out a bit too much if I used men's room one day but women's the next at say the same location. And I grew up in a small town so I can't convince myself that people aren't paying attention or will forget. And the area I now live has a similar feel where one often runs into familiar people.