Public post to anyone who might be understandably holding off on the follow: I migrated and am using a new name and not listing the old one on purpose.
Please directly @ me if you have questions or need verification, the migration was safety related and last-minute which is still why I'm on .social and didn't move to a more complex self-hosting situation etc.
Relatedly, I haven't slept in a full day. 
@dotsie i really hope you're hanging in there 